Another Birthday and Lots of Weather!

It's a dark, rainy day, perfect for catching up on my blog. There is an ulterior motive - I'm avoiding doing my taxes! By "doing", I mean getting everything together for someone else to actually do them. Normally, that isn't too much of a problem, but this year, with the sale of the house, everything I sold or donated, the move, etc.. I have no idea what to expect. I just know there's a lot of stuff to organize in a way that someone else can deal with it! Not looking forward to it.

Yes, I celebrated another birthday in good fashion. Many thanks to those who called, texted, sent cards, and emails - it was wonderful to hear from you all! It truly showed me how fortunate I am to have such caring friends in my life. I shared lunch with Anna (to my left), whom I met when I first visited CPC, and who is in my lunch bunch. J Lynne, who was the front desk person here until her husband retired, came from Columbia to celebrate with us, and Mary, who moved here about a month after I did, and who also has a doggie. Dini sang her own inimitable version of Happy Birthday to me, as she does for all of us. It was great. If you look carefully, you'll see that I have three plates in front of me. I had ordered from the menu when someone told Chef Mark that it was my birthday (the lone vegetarian). He then made Eggplant Parmesan for me and came out with a chocolate bomb with a candle!! It was lots of fun, and the four of us closed down the dining room at lunchtime. J Lynne then came home with me for a short visit and to see Rosie! I also received a call from Rabbi Covitz, whom I worked for at Congregation Beth Yam. They were on their way to visit Ariel in her first year of college. She was born on my birthday, and it's difficult to believe she could now be in college. But then, I'm one year away from being 80, so a lot of time has flown by! Thanks to one and all who added to my birthday joy! I love you all.

That fun time was followed by two weeks of cold weather. The first weekend was icy, which led to just hunkering down and waiting it out. The greatest fear was losing power, which didn't happen. If we had known we would not lose power, we could have relaxed and enjoyed it. Since I knew I didn't have to walk Rosie, I had a pajama day, which I'd not had in years. It was wonderful. I did get Rosie out back. Sometimes she would go, and other times not, but we didn't sweat it. I have a pee tray for her, and she can go when she pleases, so no worries. I included the photo of the pizza because, while the ice was on the ground, our meals were delivered. Chef Mark treated me well again, and I had no complaints. 

The next weekend was just snowy. We got about 6+ inches, and it was lovely to watch the snow falling. As everyone was cozy inside, it was pristine, without even footprints until I walked up for lunch. It was so pretty, I hated to disturb it. Within the following two days, it was all gone, which is as it should be!

During those two weekends, I sat around doing crosswords and sudoku puzzles until I felt I was in a stupor. My eyes were bonkers from staring at arm's length for so long, and my brain was fried! I used to only do Sudoku occasionally, but now I'm addicted!

With the weather being harsh, things have been pretty quiet. I did take a painting class. What I didn't know at the time of signing up was that Presbyterian College students would be there to help us out. It was part of their MLK service project, and they volunteered in many areas of the community at large. Asia helped me, and she was a sweetie. The final project was as amateurish as I expected, but we had lots of fun doing it. Just having them in the room added to the enjoyment of it (PC students also join us once a month for a trivia competition). We recently had a cornhole competition. I'd never played it before and was excited to try it. I wasn't particularly good at it, but it was fun, and I'll definitely try it again. I may have already mentioned that I've joined a Strength and Balance class twice a week. It isn't all that strenuous, but it's better than nothing, which is what I'd be doing on my own! To negate all of that, there's Happy Hour on Fridays!

CPC, and probably all facilities like this, celebrate everything! Christmas almost did me in! There is also a monthly celebration of birthdays, and a lot of us celebrated in January. Valentine's Day was no exception to the rule. We were entertained by a musical couple singing familiar love songs. There was lots of good food and prizes. Those in the photos are, in order:

Brittany - Life Enrichment assistant

Jennifer (and volunteer) - Life Enrichment

Catherine and Trudy (lunch bunch)

Trudy and Susan

Susan and Jan (lunch bunch)

Except for Jan and staff members, we are all Independent Living in the cottages near the main building.

Not a lot else to report. I am listening to Margaret Atwood's memoir, Book of Lives. I know little of her work except The Handmaid's Tale from TV, and I was a bit put off when I saw her audiobook was 26 hours long! I'm glad I didn't give up, because she's quite the storyteller. She has a wonderful memory for detail and a wry sense of humor.....and she narrates the book! It's made up of vignettes of various aspects of her life, which cover a variety of experiences and travel. Much to my surprise, I've thoroughly enjoyed it and am motivated to read some of her work.

With all of the horrendous things happening in our country, I'm back to faxing my senators and congresswoman weekly, as well as our wackadoodle state legislature. I get flustered on the phone, even with notes, but I can write it much better. I can do it all on my computer, even without a fax machine. Faxzero.com allows five free faxes a day, which is plenty. This may come in useful if you can't email the government official you want to contact, though some do not even list fax numbers!! Yes, they really want to hear from us, especially those in red states! With ICE doing what it is doing, illegally and unconstitutionally, I'm not sure why everyone isn't concerned. 😞

I'll leave you with a little video of Rosie enjoying her squeaky toy. I'm happy to report that she's doing well. I have to tell you a little story that made me laugh. One of her favorite people came up to me and said, "I'm going to have my attorney contact you about joint custody of Rosie!" I laughed out loud! That was so cute. He plays with her every time we run into each other, and she loves it!

Take care, my friends. Sending lots of love to all.

A New Year and a Walk for Peace

It's a dark, rainy day here. Perfect for me to sit and update you on my doings. First of all, I think everyone here was ready for December to end and things get back to normal (whatever that is!). We had a lot happening around Christmas, much more than I'm accustomed to, and it was so accessible and easy. As happy as I was to put it behind me, I just got Christmas items stored yesterday!! I was ready to get it out of sight, I just didn't want to actually do it! Anyway, it's over for another year!

Thanks to one and all for the Christmas greetings. I loved the cards, e-cards, calls, and messages in all forms, but there was only one envelope that tickled my fancy! I'm not sure what gave David this idea, but I loved it.

The New Year was kicked off with a visit by Maria and Mark on NY's Eve. We had planned a leisurely visit, but they had car trouble in Columbia and had to leave their car at a dealership for repair. That meant renting a car, unpacking, repacking, etc. .... just the way you want to start a trip! By the time they arrived and we had lunch, the dealership was calling, and they were trying to make decisions on the fly. I felt so sorry for them, as I knew it would likely dominate their entire trip. Even so, it was wonderful to see them, and I'm so appreciative that they make the effort to stop by. Rosie was happy to see Felix (on the sofa with Maria) and Henry, as was I. I hope their next visit will be calmer and more relaxing.

Another high point of early January was seeing the Buddhist monks who are walking 2,300 miles from Ft. Worth, Texas to Washington, DC for peace. I had been following them for a while online, and they were supposed to come right through Laurens County, but at the last minute, they changed their schedule. So, I went to bed undecided. The next morning, when I checked my tablet, the first screen was of them, giving their location for lunch about 50 miles away. I plugged it into my GPS, and off Rosie and I went. They were having lunch at Liberty Hill Lookout, which turned out to be an abandoned lookout tower and residence in the middle of nowhere!! Even so, several hundred people were there to greet them. As the numbers have risen, I realized how lucky I was to see them there. It was before Aloka, their trusty dog, left for surgery, before crowds grew so large, and before one of the older monks returned to his temple in France. He is the one in the red hat who always had a wonderful smile. While the setting was pretty inhospitable, the monks made themselves at home, and the crowd was respectful and attentive. There was a sumptuous lunch prepared for them, by whom I'm not sure. My feeling was that it was local Asian residents who tended the table and served the food. I had a spot at one end of the table and could see each monk as they passed by. Venerable Bhikkau Pannakara, the lead monk, served himself last, and before eating, they did a wonderful chant. They sat on the ground along the edge of a square tarp, with Aloka, their trusty companion, resting in the middle. While they ate, I went back to the car and gave Rosie a little walk and a snack. By the time I got back, the lead monk was getting ready to speak to the crowd. He spoke quietly and calmly about peace, loving-kindness, mindfulness, and compassion. While he spoke, Aloka was lying right behind him, accepting love from one and all. 

An amazing observation was their calm, unhurried manner. It is this that sets the tone for all they do. It seemed to encourage more of the same, for the crowd was quiet, attentive, and respectful. As if walking that much, that far, each and every day wasn't enough, I became aware that they are all carrying bags. Most of them carry two! One contains their bowls for eating, and I have no idea what else. Their schedule is also very demanding. They rise and set out early, stopping for lunch around noon. This involves lunch, greeting people, and speaking. Then, they do the same thing in their evening stop, with visiting hours ending around 9 PM! That's a long day!  Since seeing them, I always check their feet now! The day I saw them, Venerable Bhikkau Pannakara was wearing thick socks only.  When they started out the next day, the balls of both feet were bandaged with no socks or shoes (the monk behind him had his feet bandaged the same way, except each toe was also individually bandaged). I can't imagine how their feet feel at the end of the day, and the damage long-term walking has done. They really are impressive, and I'm so glad I saw them. It's also been interesting to follow them after seeing them. The crowds have been building, which is encouraging. I wish them well in every step of their journey.

The only negative thing about it was a young "preacher" with a loudspeaker! He ranted on the entire time, and I couldn't help but think of the damage he was doing to his own religion. Buddhists don't think of Buddhism as a religion, but as a practice, a way of being. It complements any and all religions.....but this young man didn't know this. He went on and on, telling us we were going to hell, Jesus was the only way, etc. At one point, the lead monk gave him a bottle of water and invited him for food, but he righteously declined. I, for one, thought his religion appeared very small and limiting. But, as I said, the crowd ignored him and appreciated the monks. 

Other than that, things have settled a bit. I've finally been able to join a Strength & Balance class that has been newly implemented. It's very adaptable to one's physical limitations, and just the type of thing I need. It's held twice a week, and I'm about the fittest in the group! I don't often get to say that!! I continue with the Trivia group, and tomorrow, I'm doing a painting class! I'm not the least bit artistic, so that should be interesting. You may or may not see the results!!

I'm happy to report that Rosie is doing well, better than in a while. She has a calming collar, and I've found a calming treat that seems to be making a difference (and, unlike the first I tried, she will eat it!). She's eating better, and all is well. You can only imagine the difference her improvement makes to my life. Long may it continue.

I would comment on the state of the nation, but I don't have the heart or the space to share my thoughts and feelings. I NEVER imagined we would be where we are today, and it saddens me to the core. I'm not sure we'll ever be able to recover from all that is going on, and I'm saddened by all we're losing, thrown away at the hands of a corrupt, soulless administration. It is truly sad.😔