The waiting was broken when Bev, a friend from synogague days, and her therapy dog, Alfee, stopped by for a visit. He is beautiful and fluffy....difficult not to love. He got lots of attention and we all loved it. The hospital chaplain stopped in....and I knew him from synagogue days also, so we had a nice chat. Finally, at the end of the day as we were about to be set free, Shelly from Belfair Gardens came by to check on "Mama Caboose", as she calls Mama for always bringing up the rear. That was totally unexpected and so thoughtful....she is a real gem, and you can tell that Mama likes her. When I got Mama back at BG, they had held dinner for her and she was chowing down as I left. I came home, took care of the cats and collapsed! The last photo is of her enjoying the ice cream social the next day, almost as though nothing had happened.
The doctor scheduled an appointment for her to have a stress test on the following Thursday. Anything like that is almost always a full-day event. In this case, I went over and did her hair beforehand. The test itself took several hours and we headed for food immediately thereafter. It was another day of getting home just in time to take care of necessities before crashing. Again, around 8:30 the phone rang. It was the doctor saying they had found a major blockage and she needed a stent TOMORROW! So, I called Belfair Gardens and alerted them, saying that I would pick her up around 7:45.....so, she didn't have time to fret over it (I did all that!). We were there by 8:30 and the procedure went well, so well that she was released around 6:30 that evening. I got her settled in BG, with assurances that they would check her often. When I went by the next morning, she was up, dressed, having breakfast and demanding more coffee!! I, on the other hand, was exhausted!!
The next day (Saturday), I had planned to go to the Bluffton Arts and Seafood Festival (Eileen, you will remember that!) with my friend Chris and her friend, who was visiting from Minnesota.....but, I was so tired that I cancelled. I had no energy left. Later that week, I did join her and her friend for Thai food. It was a nice evening and I was pleased to meet Sue....such a nice lady and the conversation was great.
I've also had lunch with one of my neighbors, whom I enjoyed getting to know....and I think we'll do it again.
As you can see from the photos, the government shutdown motivated the democrats to show up to Drinking Liberally. This is awell over twice the size of our group of "regulars" and it was a good evening. I hope we can maintain this momentum.
You must know that with the government shutdown, I was on a tear! I emailed Congressman Sanford EVERY day (except weekends and the day I actually stopped in his office in Beaufort!). He voted against re-opening government, so I still owe him one last note....which I need to do soon, while my iron is still hot!
i also contacted our Lt. Governor, who is in charge of services for the elderly in South Carolina...pertaining my mother's situation. My mother would qualify for Medicaid, but in SC that will only apply to skilled nursing care. Since my mother sometimes seems to have more stamina than I, she doesn't need that yet.....which means I'm paying for most of it.....and seeing my future becoming more dismal by the minute. I actually received a phone message and a letter from him. So, I also want to reply to him.....and question that when there are people like my mother, why have we refused the Medicaid expansion under Obamacare (free money for states for three years, then only 90%). This letter will require more finesse than the one to Sanford, where I will just level with him.....So, you can see that my "To Do" list is not short or easy.
In the meantime, my house was such a mess that I almost had to move out! This past week, my plan has been to suspend my walks and to make very short visits to see my mother. By the time I walk, shower, dress, visit my mother, have lunch....half of the day is gone. I never seem to have a block of time to get anything done. That plan worked for three days and I got a lot done. Thursday and Friday were totally disrupted, but at least the house is more liveable. I've gone through and donated to the library lots of recipe books. I've reorganize the two bedrooms to allow for guests and kitties. I've reorganized the laundry room....slowly, but surely, I'm going through things and culling crap. The garage awaits, and that will be the major project. It's happening slowly but surely......and it feels good.
AND, if that isn't enough....I've become an organizer!! All who know me know that I'm not even a "joiner", to say nothing of an "organizer". I kind of follow the Groucho Marx (or WC Fields, or someone before my time ......thank God, there is someone before my time!!) theory that I would not like to join a group that would have me as a member! But, it was my bright idea to put together a contact list of those families at Belfair Gardens who are there on a regular basis and might like to contact others. As it turns out, that was a great idea and everyone loves it!! We have 30+ people on our spreadsheet AND we have gotten together 3 times......and I have people calling me like I'm some kind of organizer!! One positive is that it has made it easy for me (and others) to get to know one another, and I think those of us who are there on a regular basis feel that we can call upon each other if needed. So, I have either done something very good.....or created a monster. Time will tell.
If all of that sounds disjointed, unpredictable, and totally overwhelming.......then you have a full grasp of the situation!! I just get up in the morning and put one foot in front of the other. I am posting this, without review. I will do that tomorrow (or even later!).... but know that I'm hanging in there, doing my best, and thinking of all those who care enough to follow this. I LOVE YOU! Thank you so much!