July - A Busy Month

Well, another month has flown by as we approach mid-summer with eager eyes on the fall! While it has been hot, it has not been as uncommon to us as it is to other parts of the country and world. Even so, climate change has me concerned about what lies ahead, especially for coastal areas like ours.

It has been a busy month and civil rights seemed to be the unplanned theme. On the 7th, Rhonda and I met at the Coastal Discovery Museum for their art display Benya: Faces ob de Gullah Geechee featuring many of the local Gullah people who have contributed to our community over the years. It was very well done, though smaller than expected. I had never been to the museum before and we tried to cover the grounds, but it was sweltering. We did find a shaded spot on one of the two piers to sit and chat for a while before completing our tour. It's definitely a place to keep tabs on for future offerings, as well as going back to tour the grounds in more accommodating weather! 

The following Tuesday (7/11), I made a quick trip over to Ridgeland to see an exhibit by Kirkland Smith (wife of James Smith who ran for governor). It was called (In)disposable Art and was composed of disposable products. All of the pieces were striking from a distance and as one approached you were struck by all of the disposable items that created the image. It was very unusual and captivating. It would have been a short trip if I'd just stopped there, but there was a second fractals exhibit (a form of algorithmic art created by fractal objects and representing these calculations as images). That, too, was interesting. As I was browsing, people started to arrive and the curator asked if I was going to stay for the presentation, which I didn't even know was happening. As it turned out, the presenter was Cecil J Williams, who is a noted civil rights photographer and who has his own museum in Orangeburg, SC. He is now 85 years old but you would not know it by his acumen, recall. and stamina. According to him, young people in Orangeburg were doing peaceful protests in Orangeburg before MLK became noted for them. In fact, before a protest in Birmingham, MLK asked 3 people from Orangeburg to come to B'ham and talk with them about what they were doing. These protests eventually led to the Orangeburg massacre in which three students were killed by SC Highway Patrol while trying to integrate a bowling alley. Another sad tale of our history. Mr. Williams was very informative and I was glad I stayed. It was an unexpected addition to my trip over.

On the 20th, Rhonda, Tippy, Kieran, and I had a day in Charleston. The purpose of the trip was to see the newly opened International African American Museum; and, for me, to give Rosie a day with Miss Ann to see how it would go. We had a leisurely drive up and luckily there was a parking garage within a block of the museum. It is a lovely museum and beautifully done with lots of interactive displays, personal accounts, African artifacts, and so on. The entryway alone, with 4 large screens on each side showing diverse scenes, was difficult to leave! One room was dedicated to our local Gullah Geechee culture and their contribution to our area. The was also a section on the slave trade and another on areas of the world where Africans have gone and impacted the culture. One of the most gripping displays was Ashley's sack, which was a sack containing a piece of clothing, a lock of hair, and pecans - gifts from a mother to her daughter who was being sold away from her! Heartbreaking! It was really sensory overload and well worth another visit. We were very fortunate to find Saffron Restaurant and Bakery within easy walking distance, where we had a leisurely lunch before heading home. We made a quick stop at Old Sheldon Church ruins, which the others had not seen. It was a very good day and Rosie seemed to love being with Ann, so a win all around.

Finally, this past Thursday (7/23), I went to Frampton Plantation to see the traveling sculpture of Harriet Tubman by Wesley Wofford. This has been on the calendar all month but I kept moving it back until I was in a crunch to see it before it leaves the area. Frampton Plantation is not an estate, it's more of a plantation house and grounds. The house is mostly a shop with a few relics scattered here and there. The grounds are quite charming with a fountain, a bottle tree, some informative plaques, and thick local vegetation. The statue was impressive and well worth the short drive up. As I've traveled up and down I-95 over the years, I had no idea this little spot was there.

Of course, interspersed with this were gatherings with friends. Tippy and I got together for lunch. Chris and I made a trip to Savannah for Indian food at our newly discovered restaurant. We got together again when Chris's friend Sue visited from Milwaukee. She always plans her trip to coincide with Drinking Liberally, so we met up again there! Maria and Mark had a few neighbors over on July 4, which was a delightful evening. A few weeks later we went to see Oppenheimer, which was very well done and thought-provoking.

On the 3rd when I was walking Rosie, one of my neighbors had a big trump sign in his window following a party the night before. You can imagine how that struck me.....the day before Independence Day! Maria and Mark stopped as they were leaving home and I mentioned it to them. Maria said that if it was still there when they got home, she was going to email our HOA management company. I went for my walk and decided to drop by their office on my way home. They were closed until the 5th. Even so, I emailed them, too, and the sign finally came down (almost) on the 7th. This sign has been there all along but at the bottom of the window partially covered by shrubbery, so he didn't remove it, he just lowered it again. Each day that I walked by that, the more it gnawed at me. So again, I "updated" the office. I told them that neighbors had been tolerant of the sign when there was so sign of discretion, but after the events of the holiday, I for one had lost that generosity of spirit. If he was asked to remove the sign, he had not. If he had not been asked to do so, I would like to be informed so as to have a better idea of how rules are interpreted and enforced. Two days later the sign was removed.  

I finally managed to check out the photos from the UK Aramco reunion and I saved a few photos of friends from those days. This might bring back memories for former Aramcons. I know the gathering at the table immediately took me back to Abqaiq golf club events! Enjoy!

 

I leave you with one of my favorite photos of Allan and myself on the 10th remembrance of his death. Yes, ten years! This was taken at the Bahrain Golf Club and it's a good photo of both of us in our younger days......and I always loved the flags!  That was just one of the many memories we shared. I received a lovely note from Jean, Allan's sister, and Victoria, his niece, posted a nice family collage on Facebook, which I reposted. It meant a lot to hear from friends who remember him so fondly and with whom we shared such a special part of our lives. That would make Allan happy, too! Thank you all for thinking of us and remembering Allan with such warmth.

Halfway Through the Year!

 It's already July, which means we're halfway through another year. It's only one more thing my mother was right about! She always said that the older you get, the fast time flies. Of course, as a kid, that meant nothing. As an older adult, now I understand fully!! 😄

June 3: This month has been a hodgepodge of low-key activities, beginning with a morning at the park with Democrats. Summer has not hit us until this week, and the get-together was on a beautiful, clear, comfortable morning. Dems, Dogs, and Donuts was a welcoming event put together by our local Dem. headquarters as a fundraiser. Unfortunately, there was a small turnout. What you see in the photos was about it. I bid on two items up for auction, placing the lowest bid and getting both! One was a nice basket of doggie treats, mostly too big for Rosie, so I bid on them with Felix and Henry across the street in mind. The second was a handmade ceramic bird feeder. Within a few hours of getting home, I received a call that I'd won them both and I could pick them up from a lady in a nearby neighborhood. In the process of fetching them, I learned that she had made the birdfeeder, had recently moved here from Seattle (political culture shock!), belonged to Liberal Ladies, etc. We had a nice chat and I expect to be seeing her around. Well, while I enjoyed the event, it was stressful for Rosie. She is the queen of her neighborhood, but take her anyplace else or socialize with new dogs, she's easily intimidated. I think she was happy to get home.

June 6: Tippy and I had lunch plans on the island, and since it was scheduled later than usual, I went in early to explore the newly opened Shelter Cover Sculpture Trail. It goes right along Broad Creek, which is quite scenic, and all along the way are various sculptures by local artists. While all of them are not to my taste, it is an interesting theme for a nice walk. There were information signs about the creek and related items, as well as QR codes where you could access information about the artists, as well as poems related to the art. I really enjoyed it, though beforehand I found it difficult to find specific info about the trail - how long, where it begins, etc. The info I got said it started at the Veteran's Memorial Park, though you can start anywhere along the way. For my plans that day, it would have been to my advantage to start at Shelter Cove Park, but I had no way of knowing. Anyway, if you're looking for a nice little walk, it's well worth the visit.

June 18: We (Rosie and I) took off to find Whitehall Park, a newly opened park in Beaufort. It was tucked away in a nice neighborhood right on the marsh. It was a spacious park, with lots of trees, Spanish moss, picnic tables, etc. We pretty much stuck to the perimeter as that was the most shaded area. You can see a long walkway in one of the photos, and that led to what looked like a large wooden pier/deck out over the marsh (which you can scarcely see in another photo). It was too unshaded to explore with Rosie in tow, so it might be worth checking out again.

Why am I doing all of these weird and wonderful things? For one reason, since Covid, I've been a homebody far too long and am trying to get motivated to get out more. Secondly, I've been here so long - 25 years - that I've been there, done that - all of the festivals, parades, groups, clubs, etc.! So, I'm looking for things that I have not done or seen. The good news is that they are happening, I just have to be aware of them! So, when I see something, I add it to my list. Also in that effort, Rosie had an afternoon with Miss Ann, a neighbor who dog sits in her home. I arranged this when Maria, Mark, and I were going out to lunch one day, so it would be for only a short time to see how it worked out. My goal is to work it into something that will allow me to get away for a day or two. The photos were sent by Ann to let me know how things were going, and you can see that Rosie seemed to make herself at home! The funny thing is that the following afternoon on her walk, Rosie took me to Ann's! We're standing in her driveway, with Rosie pulling at the leash to rouse Ann. I knew Ann sometimes took an afternoon nap and was not going to interrupt. In the meantime, Sandy across the street calls Ann and says, "Ann, are you at the house? Go to your front door!" As soon as Ann opens the door, we're running up the driveway to say hello. Needless to say, I think it all went well and we have another full day scheduled with Miss Ann later this month!

This rowdy bunch is our quiet, sleepy Drinking Liberally! On this particular afternoon, we had 39 people attend, with no prior warning. You can imagine the calamity that ensured. They were even moving tables from inside out to the porch! It seems that Margaritaville found us and everyone showed up! It was a fun evening and nice to welcome new people. And again, the ladies were surprised and delighted to learn about Liberal Ladies and other such groups. Our next meeting was much more in line with our usual summer attendance, but it did include some Margaritaville people from the previous meeting. Hopefully, that will continue.

I do have another tale of my walking microcosm at the Lowcountry Presbyterian Church. One day a couple of weeks ago as I was doing my three laps through the parking lot, I noticed a man sitting on the bench on the front porch of the church. His was tucked away behind a row of hedges with his bicycle propped up on the wall beside the bench. I didn't pay much attention, but as he just stayed there, I became a bit concerned. So, on my last lap, I said hello and asked if everything was okay. He said yes, that he was just resting his weary bones. I said good and that he had a cool place to do it, and then went on my merry way. Later that afternoon, I took Rosie there for her afternoon walk (because it's shady), and the man was still there! Now I am really concerned, so I text Lynn, who is a member of the church. She contacts the minister, who informs us that he is a homeless man who shows up there once in a while! So, Lynn joins me to pick up a burger, fries, and a drink to take over to him. To see him, there is nothing to make you think he is homeless. He remembered me from the morning and was very appreciative of the food. He said he was starting a job at Dunkin Donuts on Monday, but he has been back at the church two days this past week, in what appears to be the same clothes from our first meeting. Sadly, there is no shelter here for homeless people, and I don't think the church is reaching out to him, though he is literally on their doorstep! I give him credit for finding a protected, out-of-the-way location to rest, I can't imagine spending a day on a bench with only my own thoughts and no food, water, facilities, etc. It's another sad commentary on our society.

One of the two women who were instrumental in rescuing Rosie posted this photo on Facebook as a memory from 8 years ago, saying she wondered how she, Baby Ruth at that time, was doing! You can see the post HERE. First of all, I've never seen Rosie's ears in that position, so I know she was in pain. From reading the post, learned that she suffered from broken legs and pelvis for days before she was rescued and given care, though I think the lady tried to get help for her. I also learned that Mark Robinson, a local radio personality and animal activist, played a part in her story. He was the one to tell Jennifer Smith of Noah's Ark about her, and they are the group that took her on and dealt with all of her issues. Without them, Rosie would not be with us! Needless to say, I am forever grateful to everyone who helped her. I posted my thanks along with a more recent phone of a graying Rosie eight years later. I'm so glad it had a happy follow-up!

As always, there have been the usual get-togethers with Chris, Tippy, Rhonda, Lynn and Tom, and Maria and Mark, with most of these being over food. Chris and I are getting together for dinner today at Okan, a new restaurant with a West African influence. Its chef started with a food truck that received lots of notice and honor, so we're looking forward to checking it out. Maria, Mark, and I have also discovered a new (to us. I don't know how long it's been around) Indian restaurant in Savannah that we really enjoyed. I'll be sharing that news with Chris as she is my other Indian food connoisseur!

I'll leave you with some local wildlife. Deer must be plentiful this year as I've seen them three times on the road out our back gate, and one has wandered into my yard in the afternoon. I spotted the armadillo (butt view!) one afternoon as I was coming home. They're usually nocturnal. And of course, Rosie is still on squirrel patron.

I hope this finds everyone doing well and enjoying the summer. Love to all!💖

Almost June! Where Did the Time Go?

 Wow! I didn't realize how long it has been since I last posted. May is almost over and we will be mid-year in June! Today is a dark, rainy day - all day, it looks like, so it's a good time to do this. While I don't seem to have a lot to report, I do feel that I've been kept busy with one thing or another.

April 29: One thing I did do that was fun and informative was attend the SC Democratic Convention. I was asked to go as an alternate delegate: but once there, I was moved up to a delegate so I was able to sit on the "floor" and participate in the election of state party leaders. I was asked at the last minute (by that time I think they were just looking for a warm body!) and didn't have the time to do the research I would have liked to have done. Even so, it was great to see how things actually worked. I ran into quite a few people I knew, as well as meeting some interesting new people.  Rep. Clyburn was there, as was Marianne Williamson (not sure why). There was also some drama at the beginning, but it was worked out. The lady I sat beside is involved in the county Pride movement, and the gentleman on my left was Postmaster in Bluffton when there were only three routes!! I was certainly happy to have the opportunity to attend for the day. 

While I was away for the convention, Maria and Mark across the street kept Rosie. As a thank you for that and many other kindnesses, I treated them to lunch at Naan on Broughton in Savannah, our closest good Indian restaurant. We had a leisurely lunch, which did not disappoint, and then strolled down Broughton Street to enjoy the day and work off some of our lunch. I boldly order biryani to go, not realizing how large the portion would be - and I took some of my entree home, too. When I got home and unwrapped it, I was amazed. The only problem was that I already had a fridge full of food, so I froze the soup I'd just made the day before and ate biryani for much of the week. It really was delicious and I enjoyed every grain of it!

Maria and Mark gave me a cute little bird feeder that sticks to the window. I've had it in the sunroom and I can see it from anyplace in the kitchen and den. I have really enjoyed seeing the birds and all has gone well until last week when the squirrels discovered it. At first, there was one, but within a couple of days his buddies showed up! This has been a new challenge for Rosie and she is now on constant squirrel patrol. I know I can remove the screen (before they wreck it!), but it's given Rosie so much pleasure that I'm heistant to do it.

I can only suspect that this new lease on life led Rosie to run away from home! I had someone come by to give me an estimate of power washing the house. Usually, Rosie is so happy to see people that she will go right outside the door to greet them but will come right back in as they move inside. On this day, she headed down the driveway with purpose, taking a right turn and heading up the street. Needless to say, I left the guy at the door and headed after her, calling to no avail. She was making sure to keep adequate distance between us. Finally, three houses up Randy was in his yard, saw what was happening, and called her over. She went right straight to him! Naughy girl! I had already realized that if Felix and Henry were out across the street, she would be tempted to run over, but I don't know what brought this on. I'll definitely have to be more careful from now on.

After being here all this time, I've been to our club house twice recently. One of my neighbors invited me to join them there for dinner on a Saturday night when there would be live music. As it turned out, there were only three tables of diners (including us) and about 6 people at the bar for the entire time we were there! The music was good, a guy and his guitar, but we felt so bad for him that the audience was so minimal! Our evening was saved by the fact that we discovered we are like minded politically. They felt isolated and were surprised to find that there are more of us around than expected. Then a week or so later, Maria and Mark invited me to join them there for brunch. It was a day much like today (though it did clear up earlier) and brunch was a good call. The food was good and plentiful, but again there were only a few tables occupied. I'm not sure how they will be able to keep it open with such poor attendance.

On a gloomy note, I've been working with an "advocacy agency" that will be in charge of my care if I become incapacitated. It's a major decision but is one of the better options for someone like me (an elder orphan, as we are called). Of course, no one will care for you/me as we would wish 100% of the time, but one thing that I've realized is that the agency has a better incite into care facilities, etc. that the average person would have. I hope that will be a plus. I have one more thing to do to get that finalized, then I will work on getting cremation plans in order. It will be good to get all of this behind me and have everything in place. how's all of that for being depressing?!

I'll leave you with some miscellaneous photos from our afternoon walks. The first two are from a recently installed "pocket park" that we discovered. I was hoping it would be big enough for a walk around, but not so; however, it is a lovely little spot and would be prefect for a quiet getaway. The others are from various parks in Bluffton. In the heat of summer, by the time we find shade on my street, we are already overheated; so, for Rosie's afternoon walk we try to find shade wherever we can. We're lucky to have such nice parks close by.

I should also tell you about the lovely, long spring we are having (in spite of today's damp and darkness!). It's almost June and we continue to have temps in the 70s and low 80s. The mornings have been comfortably cool, warming up to a tolerable warmth. Long may it continue!

From February to April!

Where did March go? If I am aging at the speed at which the days are going by (and I am!), I'm in real trouble!! As I try to catch up, I'm also watching trump being indicted and hoping this is the beginning of the end of him. He will never be able to compensate in any way for the damage and hate he has unleashed on our country. Nor do I have the hope that he will ever realize his destructive nature. I just hope some kind of "retribution" (as he likes to say) happens!

On a happier, more fun note, the end of March was marked by a visit from Melodee! She was on a tour to visit friends - NOLA, Mobile, Bluffton, Beaufort, Columbia, Nashville, then home to St. Louis - and I was pleased to be included in her itinerary. We had great weather, perfect for lunches outside with friends, walks on the beach and parks in Bluffton, thrift shopping, etc. - as well as solving the problems of the world over a glass of wine in the evenings. One day we met Chris for lunch at Jinya, a new, trendy ramen bar on the island. It was leisurely and fun to be together. From there we did our thrifting. The next day we met Tippy at Dockside, right on the water. This was the morning after trump was indicted, and we had not even gotten inside the restaurant when Tippy said she felt if called for a glass of wine. As we perused the menu, we debated whether or not to have one (in front of the waitress) because we were celebrating, but we declined! After we ordered, we debated it again and decided to go for it. So, we told the waitress that we had changed our minds, and she said, "What are you celebrating?" I whispered, "The indictment!" She did a quick fist pump!! That made my day, but it gets better. As we were finishing up, preparing to walk down the dock and enjoy the beautiful weather, the waitress came back to our table with her camera. She wanted to take our photo to send to her mom!! She said her mom would get a kick out of it. I don't know about her mom, but we certainly did! All in all, it was a lovely visit and I'm so glad Melodee included me and her local friends in her "grand tour."  

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On the 11th and 12th of March, Lowcountry Coalition Against Hate was finally able to present Mary Burkett and her artwork: Beloved: Children of the Holocaust and Legacy of Slavery. This was scheduled to happen just as Covid hit and has been delayed all this time. Her drawings are superb and haunting, and the stories that accompany them are heartbreaking. Chris and I went to the showing at Campbell AME Church in Bluffton (the second was at Congregation Beth Yam). It was well attended, but this is the type of thing that so many more people should see. An interesting contrast to me was that the children of the holocaust looked like normal, happy children. On the other hand, the children of slavery had lifeless eyes and deep sadness to them. It was heartbreaking. Mary could tell you the story of the Jewish children, mainly because the Germans were very meticulous bookkeepers. The stories of the children under slavery were minimal, mainly because they didn't could! She said she had to take some of them from photographs of slave owners as they were exhibiting their "property." It was such a touching history lesson right there. You can see her work and a video HERE that will express it much better than I can. I hope you'll take a look.

The week before Melodee came, I received two generous letters on the same day - one was a $495 check from the IRS which I had not expected, and the other was a letter informing me that I have $1395 in unclaimed funds in California! At first, I thought the California thing was a scam, but it did look legit in some aspects (they would pursue it for 10%). In any case, I didn't have time to deal with it until after Melodee's visit. Then, I got online, found the unclaimed funds database, and sure enough, there it was. I was able to fill out the appropriate form, which I still need to get notarized, send in the appropriate ID, and claim the funds. I thank the company for letting me know it was there. I had no idea.

One sad note about Rosie. She has had four episodes since December that I thought were related to back pain. By episodes, I mean she starts looking distressed (ears back, tail down, very little movement), then shivering, followed by panting. It was only after the last episode that I realized all of them happened when I got dressed to go out! It doesn't happen if I just dash out to the grocery store but when I change my routine, shower, get dressed, etc. to go out "formally." That doesn't happen all that often but obviously, she has picked up all the cues. Since I've figured it out, I've invested in some calming treats, as well as a calming collar with herbs. She did well when Melodee was here and we were out longer than usual. One Sunday, when I had a play in the afternoon and a birthday party in the evening (and she was panting whenever I was home!), Maria and Mark were kind enough to let her come over and spend the time with Felix and Henry. In any case, I hope I'm able to come to a good solution for this without having to see the vet and medicate her. Believe me, it puts us both under stress when something like that is happening!

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I was going to leave you with some random photos, but I'm running out of time. So, I'll leave you with a little encounter I had this morning when I went for my walk at the church. I noticed a young man who walks a beautiful dog that looks like a setter of some kind. The last time they were there, I saw the dog come across a big stick that he clearly wanted. He looked up at the guy, got the nod, and merrily took off with the stick.  This morning as we approached each other, I picked up a big stick and waved it in the air. The doggie caught on immediately and headed my way. I told the guy what I’d seen a few days ago, and he confirmed that his doggie really liked his sticks. I enjoyed seeing him play with it as they walked away. It made me think of our lives as Venn diagrams. When we do something different in our lives, our little circle overlaps someone else, and theirs overlaps ours. Since walking in that spot, I’ve had this neat experience today. I’ve also met the guy (probably a church member) who comes and picks up stray sticks and limbs that continuously fall from the trees. I’ve run into some Jewish friends I know from my CBY days who use the church for their services from time to time. Then there’s the lady who works across the street and brings her dog over for break time, and the jogger who uses it as I do. It’s a whole little world that I knew nothing about until I started walking there! That experience made me realize how important it is to get out of our bubble and "overlap” with others – how enriching it is, and how much we learn. Saudi friends can surely vouch for what a wonderful, broadening experience that move was, and how much it opened to us. I also think of those who rarely if ever change their routine/life and how much they are missing (and why they have difficulty understanding anything outside of their bubble). I could go on but I'll spare you. I’ll just say it was a good walk!!

Take care!

PS: Just got back from walking Rosie and while we were out, a neighbor pulled over to say that a small alligator was crossing the street ahead! Considering we have also seen our first snake of the season, I'm going to have to watch where Rosie sticks her nose! Life in the Lowcountry!

Spring is in the Air - in February!

Well, I'm stunned by the speed with which February has flown by and even more so by the spring-like weather we've been having. As you can see, the azaleas, daffodils, and redbuds are in full bloom, and I spared you a photo of the pollen that covers everything! Today is a cold snap (71 at the moment), but tomorrow is supposed to be 73 with several days in the 80s next week. While this weather is very acceptable any time of the year, one can't help but wonder what we'll be having when spring actually arrives, and I can't even think about summer! Combine this with what is happening in parts of California - snow, hale, etc. - you have to wonder. But, of course, there are still the climate change deniers....  My theory about much of what is happening in our world today is that the Universe is making every effort to tell us something, that there are things we need to do differently, but we refuse to listen.

As you know, I had a very nice birthday with friends. It was totally delightful and much appreciated, and it continued! My neighbors across the street, Maria and Mark, gave me a window bird feeder, which I thoroughly enjoy. It's so captivating and relaxing to watch the various visitors. I've placed it so I can see it when I'm in my "nest", as I am now writing this or reading, or watching TV. It's difficult to photograph them since the minute I stand up to move closer, they fly away. While I don't need to photograph them all, there is the occasional one I'd like to get a shot of in order to figure out what it is. It's also a good opportunity to improve me camera skills.

My decluttering efforts continue. I've taken a load of items to the thrift shop and cleared my junk room, again making it a bedroom. The plan is to continue this throughout the year. 

I did discover something worthwhile during my decluttering. I knew I had an old Ipad, which I intended to return to manufacturer setting and donate, but I had forgotten that I also had an old android tablet. Right about the time I found it, I read an article about uses for old tablets, and one was for recipes in the kitchen. Once it was charged, I deleted most of the apps and figured out how I could access recipes that are on my laptop. I also clip lots of recipes from FB, etc. using an app called Paprika, which was fully accessible. At some point, I will get rid of my printed recipe file once I'm sure that my favorites are in Paprika. It's really a clever use of an outdated product. In any case, my next big job is the garage, and this nice weather is forcing my hand. I've been putting it off until it warmed up and I no longer have an excuse! Who knows what I'll find in there?!

The first weekend of this month, Tippy, Keiran, and I went to Oatland Island Wildlife Center. I'd heard about it for a while and thought it too close not to check out. It's not too far out of Savannah and it was an overcast, cool day, but pleasant enough for walking around. Many museums, parks, etc. were open to the public that weekend and the park was heaving. While I thought some of the animal enclosures were very sparse, the bird enclosures were better. The birds are all rehabilitated and unable to survive in the wild, so that made their situation more understandable. The facility has an interesting history running the gamut from a plantation, to the Order of the Railway Conductor's home, to part of the CDC! You can read a brief history HERE, as well as peruse thier site. As is typical of us, we then looked for a restaurant for a late lunch. I had no idea what was close by, but when we asked Waze and Google, The Haunt popped up. It is strictly vegan and Chris and I had been there once before and really enjoyed it. We made our way there and had a delicious lunch - at least I enjoyed it and Tippy and Kieran assured me they did, too. It was a very pleasant way to spend a weekend afternoon.

That Friday (2/10), Chris, Tippy, Rhonda, and I got together for lunch at - you guessed it - Olive and Fig!! Chris's sisters had given me a generous gift certificate to O & F and I wanted to save it until Chris could attend. She arrived under her own stream and it was like old times. Since then, she has also picked up food at the Farmer's Market and brought it over for lunch. It was from a food truck whose owner/chef got rave reviews recently and is within weeks of

opening a restaurant in Bluffton (called Okan, meaning heart and soul) serving West African, Caribbean, Lowcountry food. The vegetarian food we had was delicious and I figure his restaurant will have a more expansive selection. 

It took me a little while to figure out who was behind the surprise Valentine's Day gift of tasty cookies. Come to find out, it was Chris, out and about early playing the Valentine's Day fairy! I had checked with neighbors, all of whom denied the generous deed. I had thought of Chris but ruled her out since I didn't think she had a pass. When she came over for lunch and said she didn't need a pass (she had the one used to go to Lynn's for my birthday dessert), she went to the top of the list again!! Sure enough, she was the sweet person who made my day! Thanks again, Chris.

My other endeavor is to get back into Zentangle again. I only remember one art class of any kind in my life (not that I didn't have them but they obviously left no impression) and I have no artistic ability, but this has enough structure (combining patterns) that I think I can do it and possibly improve. It also gets its name because of the Zen quality of the drawing process, and I can definitely use that!  As you can see, I started big, with no practice; but even so, I'm hoping to improve however I approach it (not interested in just doing individual patterns. I want to see something that looks complete!!). The only problem is that I haven't developed a routine. I haven't found enough time to do it regularly, and I think I'll need to do that in order to see improvement. Anyway, it's still on my radar.

I meant to mention last time how much I enjoyed Bono's book Surrender. Usually, when I say READ, I mean listen to an audiobook, which I do when I take my walk, when I walk Rosie, in the car, etc. It's a great use of times like those and they are especailly enjoyable when narrated by the author, as this one was. Anyway, I had no idea he was a religious as he is and, which I knew he was a human rights activist, I had no idea of the extext. He's also met anyone and everyone you would want to me in this lifetime. Definitely worth the listen. And if you're into animals, The Elephant Whisperer was also great.

I hope this finds everyone well and enjoying life whereever you are. I'll leave you with this cute photo of Rosie and her boyfriends, Felix and Henry. They love taking all the toys out of the basket and playing with them on the flokati.

Happy 2023!

A delish rum cake from a neighbor.

 Well, the holidays are over (Yippee!) and Christmas is packed up and back in the garage. Life might get back to normal if I retained any belief that we even know what normal is anymore! At least, it's quieter! To complete the season, I attended a fun party at the Larson's, my neighbors across the street, and Chris and I shared a late lunch on Christmas eve, both of which were lovely. Maria and Mark invited me over again for brunch on Christmas morning. They are delightful company and Maria is such a great cook, it's always enjoyable - and Rosie likes their boys, so they enjoy socializing, too. All of that was totally pleasant, so I don't know why I felt so grumpy unless it is that from Thanksgiving thru New Year's, it goes on forever (actually starting well before Thanksgiving -- Halloween!). It's just too much! My hope is that you were much more into the holidays than I was and that you enjoyed them all!

This is an example of angiodysplasia, not mine.

TMI: In the midst of all that, I had a colonoscopy on Dec. 20th. I really didn't think it necessary to have one at my age, but when Cologard came back positive, I decided to go ahead with it. If you've ever had one, you know what to expect. To be honest, it really isn't as bad as the thought of it! I did have to drink 2-1/2 of those Gatorades with ALL of the laxatives mixed in. That made for an eventful day before, as well as having to get up at 4AM to drink the last bit before my 10AM procedure. By that time, the hard part was over and I have no recollection of the procedure itself. No polyps were found, but there is angiodysplasia, as shown in the bottom photo. It's fairly common and occurs when the blood vessels become dilated beyond their normal size. It can lead to small holes in the blood vessel wall that can leak blood and lead to anemia. The doctor didn't seem to think it was presenting a problem at this time and just needed to be followed. Here's hoping it doesn't progress further!

I gave up on New Year's resolutions years ago, but I did come across something that makes sense to me. It's Gretchen Rubin's 23 in '23 - 23 things to do in 2023. Twenty-three is too many for me, but I have identified about 15 things to accomplish this year - and I'm pretty good with following lists! So, the first task I tackled was decluttering my filing cabinet and desk. Not a fun task. It took me the better part of a week and a half (of doing it when time allowed), but I got through everything. It generated 2 large bags of paperwork to be shredded, and I found things that I had no idea were there! My mother had kept a large envelop of all of my 4H ribbons, etc. Also, when I was in the 8th grade going into high school, there was a big kerfuffle in our county about a new consolidated high school that was to be opened. Unknown to my parents, I wrote a letter to the editor of our local newspaper and it was printed! I remembered wrtitng the article and, once it was actually printed, how frightened I was that my partents would be angry. What I had not remembered was that I received a very gracious letter from the Board of Education complimenting my letter/article. My mother had kept them both! I think these were things that I had picked up when I cleared my mother's house, popped them in the bottom drawer of the file cabinet, and not really discovered them until this clear out. You can imagine the feelings that and other finds generated. I expected the task to be grueling, but not emotional, too! Anyway, the decluttering will be a year-long project and I've devised a plan - the larger projects needed, as well as small, quicker projects I can do as time permits to keep the task moving forward. My next job will be the bedroom that has a bed covered with items identified for donation or sell. I should be able to start that later this week. Inshallah!

And, another birthday has rolled around. Lynn contacted me early in the week to ask if we might get together for lunch on the day (the 20th).  I thought she meant our pandemic bubble who have not gotten together much since Chris's accident; but, when I arrived at Ruan, the whole gang was there - Tippy and Kieran, Rhonda, Mark and Maria, as well as our bubble. It was a great surprise and lots of fun. Everyone was in good spirits and happy to be together after a long while. Lynn and Tom treated me to lunch and then invited us all over for dessert at their place. It was a very pleasant, chatty time and I certainly enjoyed it all. Throughout the day, I heard from friends far and wide, beginning with UK and other overseas friends first thing in the morning. Stateside friends chimed in through the day via Facebood, texts, cards, ecards, and phone calls. The day was full from beginning to end and I thoroughly enjoyed it! Thanks to everyone who contributed to it. I have to admit that the card that got the biggest laugh was from Bogey, Lynn and Tom's doggie. It's the one with the hound face on the front and on the inside it said, "Do I smell old people?"

I should also note that Chris arrived to all events under her own steam. She drove herself and got to and from the car with a cane only. Over the last couple of weeks, she has made so much progress and, now that she is driving, I think that will continue at an excelerated pace. It's been a long, difficult process and I'm happy for her.

My phone just now made this gif out of the photos that were taken at Ruan! That just amazes me! From time to time it will put together a collage of memories from 5 years ago, etc. or with certain people. It is truly amazing!

I will leave you with this photo of my sweet Rosie that I made for Rhonda T. She has had a few episodes lately when she hasn't felt well - with her tail between her legs and a slight shiver. On one occasion, she just stood in place and didn't want to move. I prepared a treat with CBD oil on it, which she usually loves, and she wouldn't eat it. I took her to the bed and she just lay exactly where I put her. I had to go out for a while and she seemed better when I got back. It has happened often enough for me to be concerned and I'm definitely keeping an eye one her. I don't want anything to happen to my buddy.

In closing, I will send good wishes for peace, happiness, prosperity, and good health in 2023. May the Year of the Rabbit be kinder to us all!🐰🐇  Much love.💕💕